Thursday, January 15, 2009

Dating Mistakes: Ignoring Red Flags

You are a guy who knows how to date, you are a girl who hasn't dated in years, you are a guy who has never been successful with women. Whatever your situation, there are some common dating rules to follow when venturing into the dating jungle. One very important rule to follow, watch for red flags.

We each have our own red flags, some red flags can be generalized to most people, others are specific to your own needs and desires. Some common red flags may be: someone doesn't show up when you’re supposed to meet, if they don’t let you call them at home, if they kick their dog, etc. etc.

The difficult part is, at times, there are more subtle warnings that one may be tempted to overlook, especially if one is eager for the relationship to work out. While one shouldn't jump to conclusions without sufficient evidence on the first problem that arises, an emerging pattern is not something to make excuses for or brush under the rug. Address these problems early, and don't waste your time.

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